At this stage in life, we've found ourselves in conversation with, or just observing, some friends, who seem to be questioning everything about their life choices. The only answer seems to be to take control and LIVE! The music is based on a VERY old riff, recorded on our old digital recorder - It finally has a home.
lyrics
Everyman
You felt you’d come so far, but now it’s come to this
You gave your all to build this giant edifice
You thought that it was real, when all is artifice
and the little boy inside….
Has a wife and kids, you never had a plan
just follow the main chance, whenever you can
but life’s not been so bad, working for the Man
or so you once believed…..
You are angry and confused – got a feeling you’ve been used
and you’ve lost your sense of self, feel you’ve been left on the shelf
Your wife’s embrace is cold – suddenly she seems so old
not the girl from way back when, no you won’t see that face again
and your kids should all be grown, but they can’t seem to leave home
This generation’s lost and you’re left to count the cost
The future should be bright – you really thought you’d done it right
You banked on certainty, but there is no guarantee
You look in the mirror now and see your father’s face
What would he do in your place?
It seemed so easy then to learn from his mistakes
You think you’re in control, but then they raise the stakes
The pressure eats you up – You lie at night, awake
and the little boy inside……
Has woken from a trance – he wants another chance
Is this all life has to give? Why can’t you live and live and live?!
Another place, another wife, a completely different life
You just want an empty page, in a better, brighter age
But responsibility has a hold, won’t set you free
and in your heart there’s even more – there’s a love you can’t ignore
Every age will bring its fears – You feel you’re running out of years
but there’s life to be lived now – you just have to figure how
How…….
credits
from Binary,
released June 27, 2015
Music: Not for Pussies
Lyrics: Janette Kidd
Brian Kidd: Guitars, guitar synth, drumbox programming, percussion
Janette Kidd: Bass guitar, keyboards, vocals
Not for Pussies came into being in 2008, although Brian and Janette Kidd have been together - and playing music together
(and with others) for much, much longer.
We felt we're into an era in our lives where Bette Davis' quote about getting older (it's "not for pussies") felt very apt - and our music reflects this - and the experience of having lived a little! ......more
a side project by Janette and Brain Kidd who did release most works under the band name,"Not For Pussies" In my humble opinion this the best they ever did. if you like Steve Hackett with some Kraut influences you can't go wrong here. Highly recommended! willy vlyminck
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